Losing a pet snake is never easy. You may feel sad, shocked, or unsure of what to do next. These feelings are normal. Even though snakes are quiet and calm, they still become a part of your life.
Take time to grieve, then gently handle your snake’s body, keep it cool, and decide whether you’d like to bury, cremate, or donate it. Do what feels right for you, and give yourself space to heal.
Let’s walk through the steps, both emotional and practical, so you know what to expect and how to cope.
Grief Is Normal
When a snake dies, the grief can feel heavy, even if others don’t fully understand it.
Your snake may not have barked, meowed, or run to the door when you got home, but they were still a living creature you cared for every day. The bond was real.
You might feel sad, guilty, or numb. Maybe your snake had been sick and you feel some relief that they’re no longer suffering.
All of this is part of grief. Let yourself feel it. There’s no need to rush or push those feelings away.
You cared deeply, and it’s okay to take time to process that loss.
Trying to Understand Why It Happened
If your snake’s death was sudden, you might be left with questions. It can be helpful to know what might have caused it.
Common Causes of Snake Death
- Health issues – Snakes can get sick from infections, parasites, or internal problems.
- Husbandry mistakes – Problems with temperature, humidity, or diet can cause serious harm, even by accident.
- Old age – Depending on the species, snakes live anywhere from 10 to 30 years.
If you’re unsure what happened, a reptile vet can examine your snake’s body. This might give you peace of mind, especially if you plan to care for another snake in the future.
What to Do Right Away
When you find that your snake has passed away, the first steps can feel overwhelming. Here’s what to do next.
Handle the Body Gently
Use clean hands, gloves, or a cloth to carefully pick up your snake. Place them in a clean, sealed container. This shows respect and keeps things safe and sanitary.
Keep the Body Cool (But Not Frozen)
If you’re not ready to bury or cremate your snake right away, place the container in the fridge (not the freezer). This gives you time to decide what you want to do.
Gather What You’ll Need
If you plan to bury your snake, find a small box or container that feels right to you. Some people also include a piece of enclosure décor, a favorite rock, or a soft cloth.
Ways to Say Goodbye
Saying goodbye in a small, meaningful way can bring comfort. It doesn’t have to be big or formal, just personal.
Create a Small Memorial
You might choose a quiet spot in your yard, on a shelf, or near your snake’s enclosure. Place a stone, a candle, a photo, or even a small plant there to remember them.
Write a Letter
Writing a letter to your snake can help you release your feelings. You can share what you loved about them, thank them, or just say goodbye in your own words.
Use Art or Memory-Making
Drawing, painting, or making a small scrapbook of your snake can be a healing outlet. These small acts can help you hold on to the good memories.
Burial, Cremation, or Donation
When you feel ready, you’ll need to decide what to do with your snake’s body. Choose the option that feels right for you.
Burying Your Snake
Burial is a peaceful and personal way to say goodbye.
If it’s allowed in your area, you can bury your snake in your yard. Dig at least two feet deep and use a sturdy container to keep everything safe.
Check your local laws first, as some places don’t allow backyard pet burials.
Cremation
Some reptile vets offer cremation. You may be able to keep the ashes in a small urn or box.
This is a simple option if you don’t have a place to bury or prefer something less hands-on.
Donation
Some people choose to donate their snake’s body to a veterinary school or zoo for educational purposes.
While this isn’t right for everyone, it can bring a sense of purpose and help others learn about reptiles.
Take Care of Yourself
After saying goodbye, take time to care for yourself. Grief can linger longer than expected, and that’s okay.
Talk to Someone
Reach out to someone who understands. It could be a friend, a family member, or an online group for pet owners. Sharing how you feel can make a big difference.
Remember Your Snake
Looking at photos or videos of your snake may bring up mixed feelings. That’s okay. These memories are part of the healing process.
You might even create a small photo album or memory box.
Be Patient With Yourself
Some days will be harder than others. Let yourself rest. Cry if you need to. Take a walk. Do something that brings calm or comfort. Your heart will heal in time.
Thinking About Another Pet
There’s no right time to get another pet. Some people feel ready after a few weeks. Others wait months or longer.
When you do feel ready, take what you’ve learned and move forward with care.
- Research first – Make sure you understand the needs of your next snake species.
- Choose a healthy source – Go to a reputable breeder or rescue group.
- Set up a good habitat – Use your past experience to build an even better home.
When the time is right, another snake can bring new joy and companionship. But there’s no need to rush.
Conclusion
Losing a snake is hard. But it’s also a sign of the love and care you gave. Your snake mattered. The quiet moments you shared, the care you gave every day, those things were real.
Take time to grieve. Say goodbye in your own way. Whether through a small burial, a letter, or a quiet moment, you’re honoring a life that brought you joy.
When you’re ready, you’ll carry that love into the future, whether you welcome another snake or simply hold onto the memories.
Until then, be kind to yourself. You’re not alone.
Your snake may be gone, but the bond you shared will always stay with you.
Featured image credit: John Garrett (CC BY-NC 4.0)
Hi, my name is Ezra Mushala, i have been interested animals all my life. I am the main author and editor here at snakeinformer.com.